The Dutch Flame

After years of postponing—due to work, fertility treatments, the pandemic, and rising costs—we finally took the leap and treated ourselves to a once-in-a-lifetime journey through Japan. My husband had visited the country multiple times for work, but for me, it was an entirely new experience. In this blog post, I’ll share some of the most memorable moments from our adventure. Curious to know more? Feel free to reach out!

“What Left the Biggest Impression on You?”

This is a question I get asked often, and it made me reflect—not just on what we did, but on how these experiences shaped me. It’s not always the grand landmarks or planned itineraries that stick with you, but rather the fleeting moments that capture something deeper. Those are the memories I want to share.

Peace Memorial Park in Hiroshima

Walking through the Peace Memorial Park was an incredibly moving experience. Everything there is dedicated to honoring the victims of the atomic bombing on August 6, 1945. School groups were present in large numbers, visiting as part of their education, and their respect for this solemn space was deeply felt. The sight of the A-bomb Dome, the lone building left standing amid the destruction, is haunting. However, the most poignant moment came inside the memorial museum, where I noticed two young women walking behind us, silently shedding tears. Even after so many decades, the impact of the atomic bomb still lingers in the hearts of those who visit.

Eating Sushi at the Heart of a Fish Market

It doesn’t get fresher than this—sashimi made from raw tuna, salmon, and other fish, sea urchin scooped straight from its shell, and expertly rolled sushi crafted by a seasoned master. Eating sushi right in the middle of a bustling fish market was a culinary experience like no other. The combination of unmatched freshness and the lively market atmosphere made it unforgettable.

Geisha Performance in Kyoto

After nearly two weeks of exploration, we spontaneously decided to attend a geisha performance in Kyoto. This stunning show, blending elegant dance with traditional music, was woven into a captivating narrative. The grace and poise of the geishas—women who devote their lives to mastering this art—were mesmerizing. Training begins as early as age 13, and a fully realized geisha dedicates her life entirely to hospitality and cultural refinement. Watching them perform was nothing short of breathtaking

Michelin-Star Kaiseki at Muromachi Wakuden

One of the highlights of our trip was dining at Muromachi Wakuden, a Michelin-starred restaurant in Kyoto. We had made our reservation six months in advance, and the anticipation was well worth it. The intimate setting had just 14 seats at a counter, where chefs prepared each dish before our eyes. Watching their culinary mastery unfold while savoring incredible food and an exquisite bottle of wine made for an experience we’ll never forget.

Okonomiyaki in a Tiny Tokyo Eatery

One of the most charming food experiences in Tokyo was enjoying okonomiyaki in a tiny neighborhood restaurant that seated no more than ten people. Okonomiyaki is a beloved dish in Japanese homes, often made by fathers on Sundays—a savory pancake-like batter mixed with cabbage, vegetables, and sometimes seafood, topped with a rich, mayonnaise-based sauce. It was absolutely delicious, and the warm, intimate atmosphere of the restaurant made the meal even more special.

The Balance Between Tradition and Innovation

Cities like Tokyo and Osaka are vast, energetic, and ultra-modern. Hotels are equipped with cutting-edge technology, including AI-driven tools and robotic assistants to enhance the guest experience. Yet despite these advancements, Japan still holds steadfastly to its traditions. Temples and shrines dot the landscape, offering spaces for prayer and reflection, honoring deities or spirits of nature.

One striking contrast with the Netherlands was the level of everyday respect. Despite the bustling crowds, not once did anyone bump into us. Commuters always waited for others to exit the train before boarding. Bags were kept on laps or between legs—never placed on empty seats beside someone. These small yet significant gestures reveal how deeply respect is ingrained in Japanese culture.

This blog post captures just a few highlights of our journey—there were so many more unforgettable moments. If you’d love to hear more, feel free to reach out!